In our current digital age, social media has reshaped how individuals grieve, creating new avenues for maintaining bonds with deceased loved ones. This mixed-methods study investigates how posts that talk directly to and about the dead shape commenter engagement through reciprocal narrative sharing in grief-centered Reddit communities. Quantitative analysis of approximately 45,000 posts and comments reveals notable nuance: while posts that discuss the dead generate a higher volume of narrativized comments, logistic regression modeling shows no significant difference between posts that talk to and about the dead in their likelihood of receiving narrativized comments. This nuance insinuates that both post types may have their merits. Qualitative analysis of a select number of exchanges suggests that while talking to the dead fosters emotional resonance and talking about the dead offers relatable context, it is the combination of both within a single post that most powerfully invites rich narrative sharing among commenters. Ultimately, this study argues that online bereavement practices blend intimate expressions of loss with collective witnessing, transforming individual sorrow into a collective act of remembrance, and affirming that, even in death, human connection endures and finds new life in digital spaces.